Friday, February 25, 2011

We leave tomorrow to go see Oprah and the 2011 After Oscar Taping

So, tomorrow is the big day and I survived all homework assignments, tests and quizzes.  Mom and I even managed to watch on more movie last night: "The Kids are All Right".  This one is nominated for best picture and Annette Bening is nominated for best actress.  So, we seen three movies, so far.  That's pretty good.

I was reading the blog on Oprah.com and must say that my hopes are dashed a little.  A lot of people complained about the expense of the trip and the long wait in lines without food to see 40 minutes of taping.  I had posted earlier that I was more hoping to experience a taping in Chicago at Harpo Studios where there is no bad seat and where Oprah won't look like a dot on the stage.  I'm worried now about my mother and the long walking/standing/waiting in line.  Lord, please let this experience be worth it.... especially since I am leaving the most important people in my life.  I remarked earlier about how strange I get when it is time to leave my husband and kids.  I can't help the images of motherless children and Morris going through my belonging after I'm gone.  I know... "stop it".  When I make it back, I am going to have to see someone about this insane fear.

Anyhow, I am thankful for the opportunity and more thankful of the time it will allow me to spend with my mother.  This is definitely a "once in a lifetime" moment and we are going to live it up.  I hope that out hotel is nice and that the weather is decent.  I won't be able to blog while in LA because I am not taking a laptop.  Maybe there is some way that I can update via my phone.  I will have to check that out.

Now the movie: I thought that it was awful!! If I had been watching it alone, I wouldn't have gotten through it.  That is saying a lot because I am the kind of person that has to get to the end of the book and watch the movie to see what happens.   I can't recall a movie that I've been so un-invested in before this movie.  I tried to find something positive about this movie and it is a hard stretch.  It wasn't even that I couldn't relate to the lesbian marriage.  I've watched movies or tv programs before about lesbian relationships and I have been able to relate in some way.  I've been able to draw parallels between their relationship and my own marriage or heterosexual experiences.  Not this movie.  I couldn't even muster any feeling when witnessing the despair of being betrayed.  That's universal, isn't it.  I've seen lesbian relationships on film before where I didn't like the characters (Monster) and I couldn't even get that in this money.  I wanted to feel something even if it was disgust.  I just had indifferent boredom.

Furthermore, I don't know how this movie is a comedy.  I didn't laugh or giggle one time.  I am at a loss as to how this is garnering any Oscar attention.  Even when the teenage daughter went to college, I felt little.  Surely any emotion that involves kids usually get me.  For some reason, I felt like the characters weren't involved.  I couldn't wait for the movie to end.  I'm disappointed that we watched this one at all.  This movie can't win best picture, but I won't be surprised if Annette wins for best actress.

Well, tomorrow is the big day.  Mom and I got our eye brows arched yesterday and we are getting our hair done tomorrow.  Gotta be cute for Oprah!  See ya.

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